Some people say it’s easier to find a job when you have a job. But I’m not sure that is true. Even when people are unhappy at work, change is difficult. When people have been out of work a long time they can lose momentum. Not working becomes their norm. It can be hard to find … Read more
What Do You Really Want? There is something that you want to do, be, have or create. It could be anything but here are some of the most common things people are trying to achieve: a loving lifetime romantic relationship; or an engaging and fulfilling career; or perhaps you want to start or build a … Read more
Sometimes it’s Okay to Fall Down…Other Times it is Catastrophic Today I physically fell down. I tripped over my rolling brief case. I forgot that it was sitting on the floor in the middle of my home office. My wifi was acting up and I was walking into the office holding my iPad in my … Read more
What Does it Take to Repair a Fractured Relationship? Mutual commitment; Acknowledgment of the problems; An understanding of each person’s deeply held values; A willingness to be vulnerable; Sincere apologies; Forgiveness; and Possible reconciliation. Mutual Commitment One cannot repair what does not exist and we cannot force people to remain in any circumstance if it … Read more
